A space for real stories, honest reflections, and small victories from life with tinnitus and hearing loss.
Here you’ll find comfort, perspective, and maybe even a laugh or two as we learn to live a little more peacefully with that damn noise.
So… Apparently My Brain Has the Volume Stuck on “Drama” mode
By Marie

Did you know that when your ears get a bit glitchy, your brain takes one look at the situation and goes:
“No worries dude, I’ll just turn EVERYTHING up.”
So helpful.
So considerate.
So… so very not what we asked for.
And that, my little Tinkerbell, is basically how tinnitus happens.
Scientists (the clever ones with actual functioning attention spans) have discovered that when your ears stop sending in perfect, crisp sound data, your brain panics a little. Now this maybe because of hearing loss, damage to the hairs in your ears, maybe because of aging, or because of that one concert where you thought standing next to the speaker made you cool. I mean, you were cool, but ... bit of a plonker now, aren't ya?
It thinks:
“Oh! Not enough information! Better boost the gain! Turn up the internal volume! Fill in the gaps! Make some noise!”
You know... Casual neural overreaction. I really don't know what that means.
The result?
✨ Phantom sound.
✨ Static.
✨ Beeps, buzzes, whistles, whooshes, and the occasional ‘is my fridge dying?’ noise.
All produced live by your brain, which has apparently gone freelance and is now inventing audio content no one asked for. A bit like that self-help guru dude who thought it would be a great idea to start yet another podcast nobody asked for. "Redundant noise" springs to mind.
The “turning everything up” thing even has a sciencey name: central gain.
It basically means:
I’m simplifying massively, but I've used online dictionaries and everything to help me untangle the jargon.
I mean… if neuroscience wanted to make this easier to understand, they shouldn’t have used words like “neural plasticity”, “dorsal cochlear nucleus”, and “homeostatic dysregulation”. Who hurt them?!
This part matters:
It usually means:
You didn’t cause it.
You didn’t choose it.
You didn’t manifest it with your thoughts, moon rituals, or by accidentally watching to one too many reality TV shows. To be fair, they should all come with a serious health warning.
(because most of you have more active brain cells than me 🤣)
Here are a couple of summaries about why tinnitus happens, how the brain compensates, and what central gain actually is:
🔗 American Tinnitus Association: How Tinnitus Works
🔗 Hearing Review 2024 updates on tinnitus mechanisms
🔗 Current research summaries on auditory neural plasticity
I’m not going to pretend I understand the full research papers because my brain tapped out at “auditory efferent fibre dysregulation”. But seriously, I have limitations of understanding in this area. Plus, hyperacusis is also in there. I don't have much experience with hyperacusis.
But if YOU can understand those, please come teach me.
I’ll pay you in biscuits. The kind that won't break up in your tea after only 3 seconds of dunking.

Your tinnitus is real.
Your experience is valid.
And it’s not your fault. It's biology doing weird biology things.
Nothing about this makes you broken. I can't comment on your other life choices though…
You’re just living with a nervous system that likes to add unnecessary special effects.
Welcome to tinnitus, the twaty phantom sound that'll drive you nuts!
Take care
Marie

Comment: Be the first to comment - Use the form below.
Reply:
(It’s a friendly buzz, promise.)
Join my newsletter for stories and reflections on life with tinnitus and hearing loss.
Unsubscribe at any time
I do not offer medical advice. I am not a doctor or a medical professional.
TinNOtus is designed with YOU in mind. I'm here for emotional support and personal reflection.
Contact Me on marie.tinnotus@gmail.com
TinNOtus © 2026